Day Ninety Three

Yesterday I wrote to a good friend of mine who I haven't spoken to in a while. Actually I spoke to her yesterday and wrote her letter when I got off the phone. She's one of those people who I connected to instantly. I know that I could call her anytime and no matter how long it has been, we would have a great conversation and not miss a beat. She's a dynamic and loving woman, full of positive energy. I'm glad I know her.

Last night, I had a meeting with 3 amazing people-- Shelley, Ed and Jessie. We are going to be coaching a team of players who are enrolled in a 90 day personal growth seminar called PLD (Pacesetter's Leadership Dynamic). It's an intense seminar where the players set goals in 4 areas of their lives (spiritual, mental wealth, health and relationships). The goals push the boundaries of their comfort zones and force them to stretch and grow with the support of a coach and a team. It's an amazing experience and I am truly looking forward to coaching and helping others move in their lives. I'll probably be talking about this a lot over the next 90 days, so I want to lay the foundation for you!

So last night the coaches got together to share our "stories" to understand each other's triggers and programs so that we will be better able to support each other in the game. One of the coaches, Shelley, shared her story. She told us about her brother Brian who is in jail. I was moved by her love for her brother as she told the story and felt compelled to write him a letter. She was very happy about that idea and was excited that I might share the letter in my blog. So, here goes...my first published letter.

Dear Brian,

You don't know me, yet I just learned about you last night through your sister Shelley. She was sharing her story with me and you were a very meaningful part. She described her journey through PSI and how you introduced her to the Basic. She talked about how close the two of you are and how much she misses you. She also talked about the connection with your older sister, the experience you shared at FC and the secret you've asked Shelley and your family to keep for fear of damaging that connection you've waited to long to have.

I won't pretend to understand everything you're going through. What I will say is that through the tears, as Shelley told her story and talked about you and your family, it was quite clear that there is a lot of love. Sometimes it's not clear in the moment why our lives unfold the way they do. From the outside looking in, I see such a gift in what you're going through. You're bringing your family together in a way that would not happen otherwise. I'm guessing that your older sister would truly want to be a part of this journey with you.

I'm grateful that Shelley shared her story with me. I got to witness the love she has for you. I'm grateful that you introduced Shelley to PSI so that we are now connected and about to go on a wild ride together as PLD coaches. You have made a positive difference in this world. The ripple effect of Shelley and all the people's lives she's touched since you introduced her to PSI is staggering. I'm quite sure you've made other contributions as well. You matter in this world to the people who love you and to people like me who don't even know you. And for that, I am grateful!

That feels really good!